
My friend, Tasha, posed the question to her Facebook group, “What did you do for fun as a child?” For whatever reason, her question stayed with me all day. I kept running the question through my head trying to recall childhood memories of myself at play. I’m not sure why the question struck such a chord with me; maybe it’s because of the atrocities taking place in parts of the world – and here in the US.
You know the images I’m referring to, right? The images we see of children struck down and/or injured, children crying, children starving, children being berated and turned away by hateful ignorance; their childhood stolen from them. It’s every where we turn, on every form of media. It’s difficult to think of children without thinking of the current situations.

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As the warm summer day drew to a close, we went for an evening walk and the question was still with me – nagging me for an answer. What’s up with that Tasha?! Anyway, we walked through Lithia Park, here in Ashland, and we happened to catch the start of an outdoor summer concert under the park’s bandshell – completely old school – which I love. As we slowed our pace, and as families enjoyed their picnic dinners and ice cream treats waiting for the music to begin, I couldn’t help but catch my breath as I witnessed the summer evening in the park, the scene before my eyes was such a stark contrast to the distressing photographed images of children in other parts of our country – and beyond.

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The concert began with a rousing rendition of “Strike Up the Band” so we stopped, and stood, and watched, and listened. But mostly, I watched the children.
Three young girls were building houses with sticks stuck into the ground, using large Sycamore leaves as rooftops. They were so engrossed in the simple joy. Did I build little stick houses in the grass I asked myself?
A little boy, maybe 4 or 5 years-old, ran to the top of the grassy knoll, laid down and put his arms straight out beyond his head and proceeded to roll down the knoll. When he reached his family, he jumped up triumphantly and ran back up the knoll to do it all over again – and again – and again. His little brother tried to keep up but couldn’t quite get the hang of it, which was comical to watch. His antics were precious, and I thought to myself, “These children are so happy taking pleasure in such simple joys.”
It’s not often I step up on my soap box – aka my blog – to voice a somewhat political opinion, but I believe what these children – caught in such despicable situations – are being subjected to is all kinds of wrong and sadly, I do not see an end to the insanity of the current worldwide political posturing. For every child, it shouldn’t be a choice of survival, it should be a choice of whether or not to roll down a soft grassy knoll or build stick houses in the green grass.
Our world leaders are not doing enough, but maybe you and I can make a small difference. Maybe, you’ll join me in making a donation to UNICEF, which will go a long way in the life of a child.
I found my answer to Tasha’s question as I stood watching the children and listening to the band. I grew up in small town America – Gardnerville, NV – and I was running around outside most of the time. We had a creek that ran through our property, the water was shallow, cold and clear so there were a lot of summer days when you could find me digging in the mud. My monkey sister lived on a large cattle ranch and you could usually find us in places – on the ranch – doing things we should not have been doing, but oh boy did we have fun! Believe it or not I was in the 4H club and raised sheep for show. Yep, I did. And you’d never know it to look at me now, but I also danced – ballet. When I was a little kid, I loved Lincoln Logs and Tinker Toys, but the real kind that were actually made of wood, not the fake plastic kind they make now, and on the school playground I loved Chinese jump rope. And of course I loved dolls. As a matter of fact I still have my childhood doll crib. It’s a classic! I have lovely childhood memories for which I am greatly appreciative.
Thank you, Tasha, for asking the question that made me remember, and for making me think about the bigger picture.
And now I’ll ask each of you, what did you do for fun as a child?
It sounds like you and I had similar childhoods as I grew up in Vermont and was always outdoors playing. I think children in our own country miss out on a lot if they stay inside playing Xbox all the time. You are so right that if everyone just did a little, it could add up to a very big difference.
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Yes, indeed – if everyone gave just a bit, what a difference it would make.
I had a wonderful childhood on a small farm. Playing in the creek, hiking in the woods, and riding my bike or walking to the neighbor’s house to play. We are so blessed, most of us in America, to have these memories. But it isn’t that way for everyone. Donating to worthy causes that help children in this nation and around the world offers hope to those in need. Thank you for this wonderful post!!
I’m glad the post meant something to you, Marilyn. And UNICEF does such good work, I try to support the organization’s efforts.
We grew up in the UK. Where our childhood joy was playing football. Every chance we got.

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Is your football what we call soccer! 😉
I grew up in a close community, so many kids and neighbors all friends. I loved riding bikes with the kids on my street and playing cops and robbers. We would run around the neighborhood through neighbors yards, it was so much fun.
The world is so different now and it makes me sad. You make a great suggestion with UNICEF Patti. Donations to them do make a difference for so many kids.

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It is very different, Tracey, and kids are just growing up differently, in part due to the access to technology. They’re glued to television and computers and hand held games, and cell phones, etc. etc., which don’t get me wrong – technology has it’s place in today’s world and it’s good to be tech savvy, but kids should be out riding bikes and playing in the mud. You’re giving your son the world for a playground!
I loved playing with my doll. And I was thrilled when my mom would hand-sew a new outfit for her. And amazed by my grandma who would crochet a dress for her as she wandered around doing her chores, pulling the yarn up from a ball in her apron pocket. We who have plenty to be grateful for do need to remember to give back.

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Agreed, everyone needs to stop for just a moment and think about paying it forward – no matter how small – because it can make a difference.
Oh, in some ways I had the iconic small-town childhood, gone from breakfast on and summoned back by the brass handbell that my mother (a schoolteacher) rang for dinnertime. Barbies, bikes, dress-up, packing a lunch to take in the woods, Y-camp, piano and swimming lessons, sandy Great Lakes beaches. You’re right, things are very different around the world, even for our own children and grandchildren.

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Yes, Betsy, the world is a different place and that’s partly why I was so happy to see an old-fashioned band concert in the park with children running around just having fun. Sounds as if you had an idyllic childhood and how great is that?!
I lived in an exact replica of Mayberry as a child. It was rural, farm country where everyone knew everyone. This was a minus when you’ve “borrowed” your Dad’s car to go hot rodding. Before I got halfway down the road, Dad was called.
My favorite memory of childhood? Looking at the clear sky at night, watching the stars come out, and wondering what was beyond the cornfield.

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I grew up in pretty much the same town – everyone knew everyone and what everyone else was doing at all times! I think there were 110 kids in my high school graduating class. We never locked our doors when we went out, heck, most of the time we didn’t even close the doors. It was a great way to grow up – back in the day.
So heartbreaking…I’m spending more of my free time helping those that are going through the repercussions of Hurricane Iselle in Hawaii and people still stranded from the efforts.

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I can imagine that was quite the ordeal to live through, and there must be so many people in need. Best wishes in your efforts!
Well said Patti. I spent my days roller skating, riding my bike and just being outside. Every childhood should be filled with those simple joys, but unfortunately you are right. Many will not be able look back and find those memories. It breaks my heart to see these images, especially since many of these places are places we have visited.

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Thanks Kerri, it is heartbreaking that so many children will look back and not be able to remember peace in their childhood, or finding simply joys, or for even having a full tummy.
What a fantastic question by Tasha and and awesome post response back, Patti! I too have been deeply bothered by world and U.S. events of the past many weeks and months. You hit it spot on with the children. My childhood – to keep it short – when away from horror of my household was a blast of adventure and sports. Every day possible. Where you could ride a bike and never be worried about the monsters that existed. Or that had at least not made their way to Lodi yet. Thank you for this 🙂

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You’re welcome! Thanks for reading and for sharing your memory. Monsters should never exist in the life of a child, except for those manufactured by Pixar. 😉
We played school too. I was the eldest of 3 sisters, so I always got to/had to be the teacher. We also played a game where 2 of us sat on a step and hid something in one hand. The 3rd person had to guess which hand it was in. If she guessed correctly, you had to stay on your step, if she was wrong, you go to move up a stair. First sister to the top of the stairs won that round and the other person had to be the guesser for the next round. I remember it as very engrossing. 🙂 One of the many tragedies of the situation in so many countries today is that there will be entire populations with PTSD which has consequences for entire families.

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I love that you and your sisters made up a game that suited your fancy and gave you hours of enjoyment! And you’re right, it’s a very valid point about the PTSD affecting their lives – and the lives of their families.
WOW! Patti thank you for creating this post and answering my question in such a detailed way. loved it 🙂 Our childhood days were so different from each others but its amazing our life connects us 🙂

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The power of the internet, Tasha, it brought us together.
Consider me the ultimate nerd. I played school.

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Ha! Ha! Didn’t we all?!
Great idea Patti, you are right, we must act, however small an action. Unicef do wonderful work, I will happily support them! Funny, I was thinking the same thing last night as we went for dinner in our little local Mexican town. The people here may not have much, but they have peace, family and the simple things like sun, sand and sea. It’s very heartening.

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Thank you, Sarah, Unicef does indeed make a difference in the world. I think in today’s world, they provide so much to those in need.
Summer was fun in Camden New Jersey. We had block parties. Blocked the streets and turned on the fire hydrants. Started in the hot afternoon with water balloon fights and ended with how many fire fly’s( Lighting Bugs you could catch in a jar?) We were poor and this is how you spell FUN! Some times Mom would give me a dime and I would go get a YUM YUM. Italian ice. We had one fan to the house so when we went to sleep they would bring it to my room until I fell a sleep. Then they would give it to my sister until she fell a sleep. They were great times that I cant give back. But Memories are worth a million! I still have that old fan in my kitchen today
You have some great summer memories, Ted. I think the time we spend using our imagination is by far the best time, not only as a child, but also as an adult because as adults, we forget to play. I love that you held onto the fan, it’s a tangible memory!