
There are days when I sit and stare at this computer screen and think, “What in the hell were you thinking – who would want to read what you have to say?” Then there are days when I stare at this computer screen and think, “This blogging thing is the best gift I have ever given myself!” Yay me! A little neurotic?
What the World Has to Say to Me
Maybe. But in the soon-to-be one year from the day I launched One Road at a Time, I have discovered that it isn’t so much about what I have to say, but rather it’s about what the world has to say to me.
The World of Blogging
Kim, of So Many Places, was the first blogger I connected with online, just as she and her husband were about to start traveling the world. Kim and her husband, Brian, were from Portland and we live in southern Oregon, so there was a tiny little pacific northwest connection between us. But what I discovered in Kim was that she is probably one of the most open and giving spirits I’ve ever come across. Since Kim had both feet firmly planted in the blogging world – I asked her a few several many gazillion questions and her support of my efforts never faltered.
Talon, of 1 Dad, 1 Kid, came into my blog-a-sphere just weeks before we were to leave for Paris in January of this year. I don’t even remember how we connected online but somehow we discovered we would be in Paris at the same time. Hey, want to meet up? Sure! Thanks to Facebook’s algorithms we almost didn’t connect – but we figured it out and met at Starbucks of all places. It’s a surreal thing to travel across the ocean and have coffee with someone you’ve never met in your life, but by the time you say good-bye you know you’ve made a friend for life.
A family of three, known as the Travel Junkies, are traveling the world. Dad, Jason, Mom, Kerri and daughter, Sydney are now in their 10th month of traveling the world one month at a time. Sydney has the world as her classroom and as a retired teacher I am so inspired by how lucky Sydney is to have this opportunity to learn first hand what the world has to offer and truth be told I look forward to reading, Sydney’s Corner, of the family blog.
How did I find Amy of Our Big Fat Travel Adventure? I cannot say. Really, I can’t remember. But there was something about her smile and her story that captured my interest. She and Andrew are currently traveling in southeast Asia and what she has shared through the voice of her blog is an open and honest dialogue of what long-term travel is all about. The good, the really good, the bad, the ugly and even the creepy crawly, she’s up front about all of it.
Those are just a few of the voices that have inspired me in the past year and will continue to do so in the foreseeable future. There are others, too numerous to mention them all, but Suzanne, Cathy, Tasha and Mike are among those I connect with on a regular basis, through the touch of a keypad. With the exception of Talon and his son, I have never met any of the others – but that’s actually okay because I feel as if I know them. I do hope, however, that one day our paths will cross somewhere in this vast world of ours. That’s what this world of blogging has brought to me; an inspiring group of people I would have never met in this lifetime. I now call them friends. And that’s an awesome gift.
Who Are You?
I recently sat down to chat with a few good friends who have known me for many years and they rolled their eyes, laughed and asked me, “Who are you?” as I rattled off my new found blogger vocabulary. The knowledge I’ve gleaned in the past year has far surpassed any expectations I had when I launched this blog. And, an added bonus, as I celebrate the first birthday of One Road at a Time it turns out there are actually quite a few of you who do want to read what I have to say and for that I am truly grateful.

Celebrating a successful 1st year
It’s All About Balance
I love writing this blog, but I will admit I still have days when I seriously consider throwing this laptop out the window door (replacing the window would be too expensive) but I try to balance that out with all of the good that has come my way through the way-over-my-head world of technology.
So, come October 14, 2013, I’ll close the book on my first year, but I’m just getting warmed up, so please stay with me as I write my way through year two of traveling the world… One Road at a Time.
Patti, argh I thought for sure I had commented on this! I’m so sorry to be behind in the loop. One, I’m absolutely thrilled to no end that I met you! All of your chats, guidance and support have been amazing. Phoenix and I are so very grateful to you! I really liked the part where you said you rattled off your new blogging vocabulary. A very, very Happy Birthday to your website and may you have many years of the best success! 🙂
Ah Mike, that’s so sweet and greatly appreciated! Tell Phoenix he picked a good dad – or was it the other way around?! So happy to be a part of your blogosphere and looking forward to many future adventures, stories, and friendship!
Happy Birthday One Road at a Time! Keep writing Patti because your blog is brilliant, I’m so glad we connected online (although I don’t remember exactly how either!) and I hope we meet in the flesh one day. Perhaps Andrew and I will have to stop at your B&B when we finally road trip through the US in 2015!

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Amy – we would love it if you made your way to the pacific northwest of the U.S. and came to see us in Ashland. There will be a bed – and breakfast – waiting for you and yes, we serve veggie meals! Keep moving forward with your amazing sense of style and adventure and I’ll keep following!
Hi Patti, thanks for sharing your adventure and happy one year anniversary:)
Simon Lee

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Thank you Simon and thanks so much for reading!
I have enjoyed reading/following your adventures. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you, Diane, for reading!
Happy 1 year anniversary Patti. We have enjoyed reading about your adventures! Heres to another year and more adventures. Thanks for the mention. Cheers – Kerri

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Thank you Kerri – I have enjoyed following the 3 of you as well and look forward to continuing to do so. May our paths cross one day!
I can totally relate to how you feel, It’s a roller coaster of self doubt and absolute joy:) Happy Blogoversary!!!! One year, time goes by so fast. I love your writing, and can’t wait for kismet to bring us to meet someday (soon I hope).

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Roller coaster is right. We recently had a guest stay with us and she is a published author. I told her I couldn’t imagine writing a book as I have a hard enough time writing my blog. She said she can’t imagine writing a blog because one has to come up with so many short quips. I guess we all do what we’re supposed to do! Thanks so much for the well-wishes!
Patti, thanks for your steadfastness as a virtual kind, blogger friend. You are definitely on my list of people with whom I hope I cross paths someday. I’m still floundering around some with deciding what it is I’m trying to accomplish.in the blogosphere, but it was great to meet Billie and Steve in Santa Fe and tomorrow (um, later today), I’m meeting Larissa Milne of Changes in Longitude for breakfast here in Philly. One day, I hope it will be you I meet somewhere or other. How about a Hawaii vacation this winter dieing low season. Is there such a thing as low season?

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Right back at ya Suzanne – would love to meet! There is such a thing as a low season in our location. Our little town goes to sleep from November – mid-February each year, which is when we hit the road. Would love to buzz over to Hawaii but alas, it’s not in the cards for this year. We’re taking an extended road trip this year. If we don’t cross paths before then, our future plans include relocating to the Washington, D.C. area (hopefully in the not to distant future) to live near our son and future daughter-in-law. Once there we will definitely head to Philly as we’ve never been. Thanks for the friendship!
Congratulations on your first year of blogging, and hope you’ll have many more years of writing and traveling. See you on the road some time!

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Thank you Freya! I continue to look forward to following your journey as well and hopefully one day our paths will cross!
Congratulations Patti,

What a beautiful post. It’s a pleasure to be connected with you and read your heart-felt stories. Well done. Here’s to many, many more happy years of travelling and blogging.
Jane
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Thank you Jane – I too am glad we connected!
Happy Birthday, One Road at a Time! Thanks for the mention. It’s nice when we have others to relate to in this blogging business. Looking forward to staying connected as we grow.

Cathy Sweeney recently posted…Cruising Down Under: 5 must-stop ports in Australia and New Zealand
Right back at ya, Cathy. It’s been a pleasure getting to know you and especially funny that we lived so close in the bay area and never knew it. Another thing blogging has brought me!
Congratulations Patti !!!! I certainly know how you feel about blogging and not wanting to blog. I have returned to my birth country – South Africa – after 6 years and my family are trying desperately to understand my travel lifestyle and why I talk about my life and travels on line. It really does not matter how your blog detours or reroutes itself. I find blogging very therapeutic and you are right – I do feel I have quality friendships through blogging. I enjoy our interaction on the facebook as well. Continue writing. You are doing very well.

Natasha 🙂
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Ah.. thanks Tasha! So glad you arrived safely in South Africa and I’m looking forward to hearing all about it and seeing photos!